Some great conversation happening in the comments of my Say My Name, Say My Name post — I’m working on Part II (my response) for tomorrow, so if you have some thoughts I should consider or include, head over there now! Are you concerned with your real name being public? Or do you assume that everything on the Internet is fair game? Have you had issues balancing a personal blog with your professional life?
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Speaking of conversation — I want to get to know you all better! So I thought I’d ask 5 easy questions, and get you to answer in the comments. C’mon, I know that you’re looking for something to do that doesn’t involve work (ahem, Hunch).
1) Would you rather have hot drinks (hot coffee, tea, cocoa) or cold (soda, ice water, wine)?
2) Is your ideal vacation somewhere sunny and peaceful or historic and exciting?
3) If you could choose any hairstyle, what would it be? Curly or straight? Long or short? Blonde, brunette or redhead?
4) Are you a dog person, prefer cats, like something smaller or just don’t like animals of any kind?
5) If you could pick any actor/actress to play you in a major movie, who would it be?
What’s your incentive for answering the questions? Well, you’d be making my day. But if you want more, I’ll include some of the best answers in my Five for Friday post this week…so make ‘em good!
And, since it’s only fair that I answer them, too:
1) It depends on the time of day, but generally, I prefer hot drinks.
2) Tough one — I’ve had both experiences! But I think historic and exciting. With time for napping.
3) Long, blonde and curly (but easy to straighten).
4) I have two dogs and two cats but I’m definitely a dog person first.
5) Tough! Either Kate Hudson or Reese Witherspoon for looks and sass, but maybe Natalie Portman for acting chops?















Fun! Let’s see …
1. Generally speaking, hot.
2. Historic and exciting! Though I would not turn down a sunny, peaceful vacay either!
3. Straight, long and brunette. Which is exactly what I have, LOL.
4. Absolutely a dog person!
5. Natalie Dormer when she’s a brunette.
You’re totally right about wanting something to do that isn’t work. I mean, I would never say that, but someone else might ; )
1. I’m gonna go with cold here. Love my hot chocolate, but there are just more cold options I prefer.
2. I’m all about the sunny and peaceful. But I’m assuming that’s sunny, peaceful, and warm though. I guess Alaska might count as sunny and peaceful too, but I’m not interested in cool temperatures.
3. Long, straight, and blonde. Which is almost the opposite of my long, dark, curly hair. I don’t hate it, but given the choice…
4. I’m a dog person all the way.
5. Angelina Jolie would be my first choice just because I’m a fan, not because she makes sense as me. But Natalie Portman looks a lot like me in her Zoolander cameo so she’s probably the best choice.
1. Depends on the season – winter, I prefer hot, but cold in the summer.
2. Definitely sunny and peaceful if I want a true VACATION, but just traveling, I like seeing anywhere I can!
3. I want Taylor Swift’s hair. End of story.
4. I’m totally a dog person!!
5. I would say Dianna Agron (Quinn on Glee) or Kaley Cuoco (Penny on Big Bang Theory) .
Funny questions! Here we go …
1) Depends on outside temperature, but I usually have room temp to cold drinks.
2) All of it! I like diversity.
3) Wavy, long, and brunette. That’s what my hair looks like now, I’d love it to be even longer.
4) Cat person! But I like dogs, too, if they know how to behave. And I love our dorky fishies! (Yes, really!)
5) Rachel Weisz! She’s really pretty, and I think I look a little bit like her, on good days.
Oh I love this sort of thing (yeah, maybe a little sad, but there is always so many fun answers!)
1. Hmmm… Unless I am in Australia the answer would be cold. I am borderline addicted to water, but I just about can do without hot drinks. Not that I’d want to… The game changes in Australia though, flat white coffee the Aussie way is just out of this world!
2. Historic and exciting! I have very little patience with relaxing in the sun… I blame my parents, actually I thank them. Without them I would not have learnt to appreciate history and nature and exploring for the sake of exploring.
3. Long, curly and black! None of which I have
nothing is stopping me from going black, but my hair seems to repel any sort of curling attempt…
4. My first love has always been wild animals, I do not wish to have them as pets at all. However growing up with a bird watcher and biologist for a dad does that sort of thing to you…
5. Kate Winslet! A girl can dream right…
What a distraction from work??!
1. Usually hot. I heart coffee.
2. Sunny and peaceful all the way – the things I would do for a beach vacation right about now!
3. Wavy, long, brunette. I use to get perms back in the day. I love curly hair.
4. Dog person especially labs!!
5. Jennifer Aniston!
1) I’m definitely a big fan of hot drinks and am constantly drinking tea…and craving hot cocoa.
2) My attention span is that of a gnat, so historic and exciting is probably a better fit for me.
3) Straight and shiny red hair please! I’m tired of my disheveled looking (not *quite* straight) brown hair.
4) Doggies ALL the way! I have two of my own, plus one foster.
5) I’m liking Winona Ryder for that role.
1) Since it still feels like winter here, I think the cold is making me want hot drinks…but my general preference is for cold. Especially beer. (’cause as Sheryl Crow said “i love a good beer buzz early in the morning”…)
2) I guess exciting and historic? My favourite vacations have been the ones where there is a lot to see, great food options, but also places to just sit and enjoy. Which is why San Francisco and Paris have been two of my favourites!
3) I love my brown hair, but I wish my natural colour was slightly darker. So I’d choose dark brown, straight (my hair is VERY straight already), and medium length. I like to have options!
4) I like them both and grew up having both…but if I had to choose, I’d pick the unconditional love of a dog versus the aloof “who me?” attitude of a cat.
5) My husband always says that Selma Blair should play me in a movie. I used to disagree, but she’s grown on me… So Selma Blair it is!
Fun!
1) In the morning, hot. Later in the day, cold.
2) Sunny and peaceful, for sure.
3) I’d keep my chocolate brown hair, but somedays, I’d love to have some natural wave to work with! My hair is stick straight.
4) Both? We have a cat and a dog, and I’ve had all kinds of other pets, too.
5) Not sure I would pick her, but I’ve been told that I look like Katie Holmes, so looks-wise, she would be best.
1) Depends on time of day and whether eating. Mornings: hot coffee; With Meals: cold drinks
2) Someplace that can combine all three… like a trip to Italy — history, gorgeous scenery, and a peaceful ocean too
3) Medium, straight, and sleek — my hair is humidity dependent. I like brunette beauties, but I tend to look better with a few highlights
4) I have a cat and love her, but DOGS are where it’s at!!!!
5) Does the actress have to be currently alive and working? If not, I’d go with Judy Garland because she’s complex and expresses emotion like no one else. If a current day actress, Kate Winslet because she has a similar intensity of emotion as Judy.
1. coffee, coffee, coffee – really, really hot. Actually, I do drink more water than coffee.
2. I like historic and interesting with some peaceful moments here and there.
3. brown and curly – you can always make it straight.
4. dogs! I have 2 rescue pups.
5. Hmm.. There’s only one me.
1. It depends on the time of day and the time of year…during the colder months I prefer hot hot hot..but in the hot humid days in MD..i’ll take an iced skinny caramel machiato anyday:)
2. When I take a vacation, I want warm sunny beaches. Having little ones, historic eventful vacations end up being more work than enjoyment. As they get older, I plan to take one historic/secretly educational vacation a year.
3. I love the color of my hair, it’s a rich brown with some great natural highlights..but I would love to have longer hair that had a nice natural wave to it.
4. I am allergice to dogs and cats..I love dogs..all sizes/breeds…but after even touching a dog..if I havn’t taken allergy meds that day…i start to break out in a rash and get all itchy..not to mention what happens to my eyes and nose..UGH
5. Tina Fey..she is my twin and I love her sarcastic sense of humor..but I also love Julia Roberts due to her girl next door quality.
1) Cold drinks. Trying not to drink too much soda but I have an addiction to diet root beer.
2) Kind of both I guess? I have two places I want to vacation at : Kona, Hawaii to ride and run the Kona Ironman course which is really Sunny and after the suffering is kind of peaceful. And I’ve always want to visit Japan and spend a lot of time in Tokyo and the more historic places like Kyoto etc.
3) As my hairline is receding I’d just be happy to have more hair
4) Dog person! Grew up with an awesome dog and I’ve had two beagles since ‘going out on my own’! I dislike them when they pee on the carpet, but I still love them.
5) Conan O’Brien. Before my hair started dwindling we looked similar.
1) This questions is tough! I agree, depends on the time of day. I love my coffee in the morning, but enjoy cold water the rest of the day.
2) My ideal vacation would be sunny/peaceful. But since I have to take my husband along, it would probably have to be a mixture of both!
3) I love being a brunette. However, it’d be nice to have some natural curl that was easy to straighten for more diversity.
4) I currently have 2 cats, but cannot wait to get a dog! I definitely think I’m more of a dog person.
5) Either Sandra Bullock or Rachel McAdams.
1) Like everyone’s saying, it depends on the day/season/etc., but whatever the beverage is, it either has to be VERY hot or VERY icy cold. I don’t like any of those in-betweeney temperatures.
2) Sunny and peaceful, definitely! I like a lazy, quite vacation.
3) I have blonde hair that’s fairly fine, and I like it most of the time, though it doesn’t really do anything or hold styling products well. So I’d say my current hair…but more awesome? Perhaps more like Reese Witherspoon’s shorter styles.
4) A dog person. I had a little one-eared mutt named Newt (who now lives with my parents) and I would pick him over any animal
5) I agree on Reese Witherspoon–funny, sassy…and she has the hair I want!
1. In the winter, I definitely want something warm to drink, but in the summer I LOVE ice water with lemon and lotsa smoothies!
2. My husband and I have 2 requirements for a vacation. 1. there has to be really good local food and 2. there has to be something fun to explore. However, with that said, our favorite trips are always to the beach. So I guess a combo of the two?
3. I’ve got long curly brunette hair, but I straighten it a lot. I like it because I can be curly or straight based on my mood.
I’m about to cut it short, though for the summer. I’m grateful to have hair that grows 8-10 inches every year so that way I can have it long in the winter and short in the summer.
4. I like dogs and cats. But I think I’d say I like dogs more than cats. At least we have a dog and no kitties, haha!
5. Probably Anne Hathaway since I hear so frequently that I look like her.
1) Cold drinks, water please!
2) Sunny beach vacation, Negril Jamaica is our favorite place in the world.
3) Considering I just got my hair chopped and got highlights and low lights for the first time in my life yesterday, we’ll go with short with some color. I absolutely love it. I feel awesome, just in time for my 39th b-day on Fri.
4) I would say I’m more of a dog lover. I miss our Basset Hound and cat very much. And we currently have a turtle and Blue & Gold Macaw. I’m ready for more pets but Kev not quite yet. Boo!
5) I would say Jennifer Lopez, just because I’m a big fan!
1. It depends on whether I feel hot or cold, but generally I’m the one drinking iced coffee even when its snowing out.
2. Historic and exciting. My husband and I went to London and Paris for our honeymoon for the historical aspect instead of sunbathing on a Caribbean island. I do not regret it for a minute and would love to go back to London or Paris.
3. My ideal hairstyle would be medium-length hair, mostly blonde but with some strawberry blonde highlights, and wavy.
4. I love dogs. I don’t currently own one because I live in an apartment that prohibits pets. I want to get a Boston Terrier or a Bug (Boston Terrier and Pug mix). Ideally, I want a Siberian Husky, but my allergies can’t handle that much dog sadly.
5. I would have to say Kate Hudson. I don’t really look like anyone in Hollywood, but Kate Hudson is probably the closest.
1.) Depends on the weather and my current body temp! I actually like iced coffee better than hot, so there’s another reason to look forward to summer.
2.) Sunny & peaceful, but also not a place where there is nothing to do except lay on the beach. I still need some kind of adventure/activity on vacation!
3.) Long, curly, blondish-brown.
4.) I love dogs (and want one) more than I can say! Well, I can say that I smile at dogs I pass on the street more than people, and I am tempted to kidnap almost every dog I see
5.) Ellen Pompeo on Grey’s Anatomy!
Oooh, this is so fun!
1. Depends on the weather/my body temperature – if I’m cold I want something hot, but if I’m hot I want something cold.
2. Sunny and peaceful, whether it’s the beach or hiking in Colorado.
3. Long, wavy, a dark brown. Like the Kardashian girls – I think their hair is beautiful.
4. I have a cat, but grew up with a dog and am much more of a dog person than a cat person, although I LOVE my cat. Dogs are just so much more affectionate.
5. Probably Reese Witherspoon. I love every movie she is in!
yay, fun survey!
1. i would have to say cold just because water is what i drink by far the most of. however, i’m not one to say no to hot coffee/tea in the morning or a nice cold beer after work!
2. i’d go with historic and exciting – i HATE being hot most of the time, so spending hours on the beach napping is NOT for me. maybe somewhere historic and exciting with a pool so i can get in a little sun.
3. long, thick, and dark. i’m 1/3 of the way there, i have long hair, but it’s mousy brown and super thin. *sigh*
4. dogs all the way!!! although at different points in my life my family has had countless cats, chickens, rabbits, pigs, horses, a goose (not a good idea), and a peacock!
5. this is a really hard question. i can’t really think of any actress that i look like at all, but i love kate hudson and zooey deschanel.
I totally feel you on the super thin hair… I am in the same boat!
Oh and Zooey Deschanel is great!
1. Despite constantly being cold, I love cold drinks (maybe just for the ice in them?).
2. I would definitely pick sunny and peaceful. Vacation without sun isn’t vacation in my mind!
3. I’m partial to my dirty blonde coloring but wish that I had naturally straight hair. It’d save tons of time blow drying and straightening (not to mention the humidity issues that crop up in the summer!).
4. Dogs over cats but only if they’re smaller than 20lbs. I had a traumatic experience with a big dog as a little kid.
5. I love Reese Witherspoon!
(1) I prefer cold drinks because it means we must be getting into warmer temperatures – my faves would include: ice cold Coronas, wine, smoothies and lemon water
(2) Can we say sunny and exciting?! I love going south with a little R & R but you need a little excitement to create some life-long memories, right!??
(3) I would love long wavy brunette hair!
(4) I love sloppy, wet “big” dog kisses. We have 2 rottis – they’re big dogs who think they’re lap dogs
(5) I would have to say Drew Barrymore. She’s had her challenges and mis-steps along the way, but has come out the other side a strong, beautiful, confident woman!
what a fun idea!
1. Probably cold drinks. I drink a lot of water and I could still drink smoothies and stuff too.
2. Historic and exciting sounds like fun to me. I love learning new things, so I think the history part would be interesting.
3. Dark, chesnut brown, nothing longer than shoulder length, a little wavy, that could be easily straightened. I do like how my hair is now though, a darker color could be nice though.
4. I am cat person, in fact we have three cats right now. They are just so darn cute & have very unique personalities! I do like dogs though.
5. I am not sure she looks anything like me, but Kate Winslet, because she is pretty amazing.
1. Cold drinks – I type that as I sip a cup of hot tea!
2. I love historic, touristy places – but like you, I just want time to nap and relax!
3. Long, curly brunette.
4. I like both dogs and cats, but I think I like dogs more – they just put a smile on my face!
5. Amy Adams – because I think she could play a quiet nerd (me!) quite well!
1) Cold! I’ll drink cold water as I drink coffee. I’m always thirsty and I think cold drinks are more refreshing.
2) Sunny and peaceful. I love when a vacation is truly relaxing.
3) Anything that isn’t GRAY! I keep mine dyed light brown now.
4) Dogs all the way. My puppy is just the cutest thing ever (EVER!) http://bit.ly/gULq5F
5) I kind of love Zooey Deschanel.
this is right up my alley. thanks for the time waster at work!
1. i only drink coffee and water.. and i like my water luke warm(am i weird?) so i will say hot
2. i like outdoorsy vacation spots best–hiking, snowboarding, surfing, etc.. and that wasn’t an option. so of the options? exciting and historical. i LOVE europe.
3. there is a reason i have had the same hair for over 15 years…with the exception of my bangs which i’ve had for a few years.. long and blonde is for me.
4. i love both! i guess dogs. because they are more interactive.
5. reese witherspoon.
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Fun! I love Would You Rather!
1) Cold drinks. Or room temperature red wine.
2) I am a beach vacation girl through and through.
3) I have straight, long, blonde hair. I’d like to try a more bold color and/or a super short cut, but I’m scared. I know, I know: how many calories does fear burn??
4) I am a dog person more than a cat person, and I prefer big dogs to little yappy ones.
5) I think Drew Barrymore might be a good choice for someone to play me in a movie. Great question!
Oh man, you ask hard questions!
1. It depends on the season. Cold drinks during summer, warm drinks for all the other times.
2. I guess if I have to choose, I’d say historic and exciting. I really like learning about history, so long as it’s not in a history class
3. Long, brown and curly! Mine is too short right now, and I can’t wait until it grows!
4. Dogs, definitely dogs!
5. I have no idea who would play me. I love Angelina Jolie as an actress, but she’s way too petite to ever play me!
Have a great day!
1. I prefer hot drinks I guess, just because anything I hate anything ice cold!
2. I think I’d pick historic and exciting. More memorable!
3. Wavy gorgeous readhead!
4. DOGS
5. Rachel McAdams!
1) Would you rather have hot drinks (hot coffee, tea, cocoa) or cold (soda, ice water, wine)?
COLD! Except in the morning when I want hot (coffee), after cold (water).
2) Is your ideal vacation somewhere sunny and peaceful or historic and exciting?
Sunny and peaceful (a la The Body Holiday in St. Lucia) AND historic and exciting (Venice, Italy anyone?)
3) If you could choose any hairstyle, what would it be? Curly or straight? Long or short? Blonde, brunette or redhead?
Curly-ish long brunette…
4) Are you a dog person, prefer cats, like something smaller or just don’t like animals of any kind?
I am a lover of all animals but am currently owned by two cats, the sweetest little girls in the whole world, Bella and Starla.
5) If you could pick any actor/actress to play you in a major movie, who would it be?
I’ve been told that I look like Kelly McGillis who is both gorgeous and an award-winning actress, so Kelly it is!
1) Cold. I’m especially loving iced tea right now. But whether it’s hot or cold, I like extreme temps. So it’s either gotta be burning hot (coffee, yum!) or ice cold (room temp water is a no go!).
2) Both! I love a good beach vacay with drinks w/ umbrellas in them, but I’m also super excited to explore my way through Europe for the atmosphere/culture/food…
3) Long curly blond hair! The closest I get (without a curling iron) is wavy hair…but I think curls are so gorgeous
4) Absolutely a dog person. I especially love labs-they are so friendly and playful and loving! But I also love my dog to death, and she’s a 50-lb mix of who knows what
5) I’ve always thought Drew Barrymore or Reese Witherspoon would be great-love them both! But I also think Poppy Montgomery (the blonde on Without a Trace) is STUNNING-so she could play me as well. Haha :-p
one. now this is tough but i have to stick with my hot coffee!
two. historic and exciting places that i have never been too!
three. from long and straight to curl, short but sticking with brunette!
four. i’ll babysit your dogs anytime you need a babysitter. i love everyone elses’ dogs that i get to give back!
five. rachel bilson!
1. Hot
2. Sunny and peaceful
3. My own
4. Dog
5. Matt Damon
love this..
1) hot drinks all the way except for water of course
2) I’m a caribbean girl so sunny and peaceful for me
3) Short bob with blonde highlights
4) I may get black balled for this but i don’t like animals.. I know who doesn’t like animals
sorry
5) kerry washington
Love this!!
1. HOT. For sure. I’m always cold!!
2. Sunny and peaceful. Like I said, I’m always cold, so warm weather vacations are the best!
3. Long, straight and blonde. I have two of the three!! Actually, I’d probably choose my hair, but with no frizz in my wave.
4. Dogs. Though cats are cool too.
5. Grace Kelly. Assuming she’d be cool with coming back from the dead
1) I would rather have cold drinks. Even in the Boston winters, I will drink iced coffee.
2) I am a history nerd, my ideal vacation is the USS Arizona in Hawaii
3) I don’t have an ideal hairstyle, I just wish I knew more to do with my hair. I am not great at doing hair.
4) I prefer dogs, but I live in a city and I will never get why people keep animals in such small places. Poor doggies
5) I would probably pick Maggie Gyllenhaal, she’s sassy and brunette, just like me haha.
FUN!
1) Cold drinks all the way. I mainly chug water and nothing else.
2) Sunny and peaceful. Give me a good book, a beach chair and the sound of ocean waves and I’m in heaven!
3) Sometimes I think curly hair would be cute, but I actually love straight hair. And brunette all the way. Blondes definitely don’t have more fun!
4) I love dogs, but I’ve never had one of my own, and I’m actually not sure I’d want to get one right now because of time restraints with my schedule.
5) Katie Holmes, preferably in her pre-Tom Cruise days!
1) 95% of the time, cold drinks please!
Almost medium length, auburn red/brown curly hair! Even though i would LOVE for it to be longer!
2) Sunny, historic, and totalllllly exciting!
3) My hair is already how i would want it
4) Dogs– i’m a definite dog lover! I used to allergic to cats, and i still don’t like them!
5) Tough decision! There is no one like me, but i’d go with ….. Lucille Ball- we’re hilarious, snazzy, cute, funny, and have awesome red hair
1) Would you rather have hot drinks (hot coffee, tea, cocoa) or cold (soda, ice water, wine)?
I like my water and my wine (red) at room temperature! I like my coffee very hot, so I will go with hot.
2) Is your ideal vacation somewhere sunny and peaceful or historic and exciting?
I like to veg on the beach, but probably prefer historic and exciting.
3) If you could choose any hairstyle, what would it be? Curly or straight? Long or short? Blonde, brunette or redhead?
I’ve made peace with my baby fine, straight hair, so I will go with what I have: short and straight. I wouldn’t ming beinga bit blonder, though!
4) Are you a dog person, prefer cats, like something smaller or just don’t like animals of any kind?
Dog person all the way.
5) If you could pick any actor/actress to play you in a major movie, who would it be?
I’ve always liked Christina Applegate.
I don’t think anything is private anymore! I have recently had some issues with my (newish) blog and work life. I heard through the grapevine that my reputation is that I spend all day on FB and Twitter — and I don’t do any work. Ha! I know that actions speak louder than words, but I did make it a point to blog about how automated blogging can be. I don’t actually write much at work – I mainly tweak stuff I’ve pre-written, but it made me think about how some people perceive reality and it totally popped my naive little bubble.
As for your questions…
1) Hot drinks — or at least room temperature! I do like my margaritas frozen, white wine chilled, and the occasional frothy beer.
2) Right now I’m going to go with peaceful. I do enjoy exciting and historic too though! It depends on how exhausted I am.
3) I have a mix between curly and straight and I’ve come to the realization that the grass is always greener. I do like my hair now (it’s taken a long time to accept) — although I’d like a little more red and a LOT less (pokey) gray.
4) I like animals, but I don’t want to live with them. I think some people feel that way about babies and kids and I totally get it. I would much rather raise humans
I think I would be a cat person, but I’m allergic.
5) The only celebrity that remotely resembles me is Jennifer Carpenter (from Dexter) –so I guess I’d pick her. On a personal level I LOVE Jennifer Garner.
1) Cold, preferably with lots of ice.
2) Can I choose historical and peaceful?
3) I love my hair being wavy so I think I’d stay with that…I love the option to go curly or straight easily or just wavy for the day to day.
4) Dogs, allergic to cats sadly.
5) My bf wishes I would say Olivia Munn, but I prefer someone unusual like Chloe Sevigny.
Great questions!
1- normally I’d pick hot but I’m sick today and just want an ice cold lemonade!
2- going out on my own here peaceful and historic
3-Curly, long and blonde
4- dog
5- and I want Ellen to play me because I love her